13-Year Old Seduced Online
July 23rd, 2006Posted by: Theo Nicolakis
When I first read this story about a 13-year old who had used a web camera to create an underground enterprise of child-pornography, I knew that this article would prove to be the archetype of how easy online seduction and child pornography had become.
I think that this article pretty much says it all and reinforces the series of blog postings in which I’ve talked about the need for active parenting and vigilence in the digital age.
As parents and pastors, we are going to be dealing with stories like this on an ever-increasing basis. Indeed, without breaking confessional confidence, clergy have relayed to me how they have had individuals coming to them with issues dealing with online addiction in its various forms including pornography.
We’re at the point where as a Church we are going to need to formalize our response in a series of ways.
Firstly, the pastoral letter issued by the SCOBA hierarchs in March of this past year was tremendous (if you haven’t seen it, I’ve copied it below).
Secondly, the series of seminars at this year’s Clergy-Laity are crucial.
Thirdly, our involvement in RAAP–the Religious Alliance Against Pornography–and the efforts sponsored by RAAP are critical to having our efforts brought forth on a national stage.
Finally, our mobilization as parents, pastors, and Christians is vital in not only bringing these issues to the forefront, but also creating the appropriate educational materials and resources to keep all stake holders informed on an ongoing basis.
SCOBA LETTER FOLLOWS:
The Standing Conference of the Canonical Orthodox Bishops in the Americas
8 East 79th Street, New York, NY 10021
March 15, 2006
To the Reverend Clergy of our parishes
Dearly beloved brothers in the Lord,
With this letter, we, the hierarchs of the Standing Conference of Canonical Orthodox Bishops in the Americas, wish to share with you some disturbing observations concerning the destruction of many lives in our nation, as explicit sexual content becomes increasingly available through a variety of technologies.
We are writing at this time because we know that you care deeply about the well-being of your children, and it is precisely your children who may pay the highest price and become victims of the uncontrolled availability of all that is now technologically available on the internet. This could spell disaster for your children and grandchildren, inflicting upon their lives and their families grave consequences resulting in immeasurable moral, social and spiritual damage.
Current advanced technology facilitates the distribution of digital video content via wireless handheld devices such as video cell phones, iPods and PDAs. Through highly advanced versions of these wireless handheld devices, all the pornography on the internet is available to many Americans, including our children and teens. There are no filtering or monitoring devices available at this time. This means many children and teens will be able to access such material, unless their parents are aware of this threat and take action to prevent it.
The technology itself is not dangerous. The danger lies in the fact that there are currently no safeguards or regulations in place to protect children and teens from being exposed to unwanted, seductive and explicit content that is downloadable through these wireless handheld devices.
The National Coalition and the Religious Alliance Against Pornography (RAAP), which has been fighting the advancement of our sexualized culture since 1986, when it was formed in New York with Archbishop Iakovos among its founders, are now working with the CTIA Wireless Association to ensure that appropriate guidelines, controls and protections from this threat are in place as it relates to cell phones.
However, it is critically important that companies develop educational materials for parents, which will be used consistently at the point of purchase and choice of contract. Until these wireless devices can be used safely, we urge great caution to parents of children and teens.
We call upon you, our clergy, to be vigilant and to help keep your flock informed of the dangers they unknowingly are opening to their children and grandchildren when they give them these wireless devices, before appropriate protection has been developed. Ongoing parental guidance is essential to protect our children.
Invoking the prayers of the Holy Theotokos for the welfare of our beloved children, we extend to you and your flock our blessings,
+Archbishop DEMETRIOS, Chairman
Greek Orthodox Archdiocese of America
+Metropolitan PHILIP, Vice Chairman
Antiochian Orthodox Christian Archdiocese of North America
+Metropolitan CHRISTOPHER, Secretary
Serbian Orthodox Church in the USA and Canada
+Metropolitan NICHOLAS of Amissos, Treasurer
American Carpatho-Russian Orthodox Diocese in the USA
Orthodox Church in America
Romanian Orthodox Archdiocese in America and Canada
Bulgarian Eastern Orthodox Church
Ukrainian Orthodox Church in the USA
+Bishop ILIA of Philomelion
Albanian Orthodox Diocese of America